Thursday, 14 February 2013

Hospitality and socialising


Wed 13th Feb
 
We have been intrigued by the different view of hospitality in this culture to what we are used to.  I think I may have mentioned before that when people call on us or come for a meeting, we have tried offering them a drink and they always give us a look as though we have offered them a venomous snake!  We have thought about it and think it’s because no-one eats or drinks between meals here and it must seem as though we are saying they must be weak if they need a drink when it is not a meal time! 

So now we have stopped offering people drinks and they seem much happier!   It is the same the other way though as when we are visiting people no-one offers us any food or drink either so we have to be prepared and have water in the car!   We are finding that we are becoming more hardy and can now go hours on end with nothing to eat or drink without getting headaches or feeling faint, which would have been unheard of a few months ago!  We actually realise we ate and drank far too much in the UK which is probably now helping our decreasing waistlines!! 

As far as eating together is concerned, it seems that no-one invites anyone else into their homes to eat.  Occasionally there is food at church events but there doesn’t seem to be any socialising just for fun.  We have noticed that when people eat together at church events they don’t actually make conversation with each other but just keep their heads down and eat the food quietly.  Often there is very loud music playing so you can’t hear someone even if they do speak to you!  We also heard that one of the churches here hosts an annual barbeque and invite local people to come along – I suggested that we could do some children’s activities but the people told me the children don’t come as the parents leave them at home while they come along, collect their food and take it home again!  

So it seems this is not going to be the culture where I host a lot of dinner parties! 

Ups and downs of children’s work

Yesterday I took my reading classes with my 39 year 4s and 28 year 6s (the groups seem to get bigger each week!).  I am not sure how much good I am doing as I am having to go right back to the very basics of reading – just currently learning letter sounds and even that is too hard for some of them.  If you are a teacher in England reading this – HELP!  I did have a laugh though as we were looking at the letters ‘a’ and ‘s’ and I tried to get them to sound out the word ‘as’.  I asked them if they could think of a sentence with the word ‘as’ in it and had some hilarious responses – one child said ‘I as a new dress’ and another said ‘I as the teacher a question’.  The difference in accent and dialect is another hurdle to cross!!   I have agreed to take some training sessions for the staff to teach them to teach reading – again…HELP! 

After this we took the lunchtime Bible club at Gibson and came away feeling very discouraged – there were well over 100 children there which is great, BUT there is so much noise going on and the children are often chatting to each other so it is extremely hard to make ourselves heard and it felt that we had wasted our time as no-one heard what we had said.  Then today we had a really encouraging morning to make up for it! 

We took an Ash Wednesday service in Mahaicony and had invited children from the local primary and secondary school – we had about 100 children and teachers there (they gave all the children the option of coming if they wanted to).  They all listened well and joined in enthusiastically with all the action songs!  Nettie made her Guyana debut and a lot of the children looked very bemused by her!!  We’ll persevere with that one! 

After that we took the bible club at Helena and the children listened well and had a great time doing the action songs which are becoming more familiar to them now!  While they were colouring we had chance to go round and chat to them and I had a try at saying silly things to make them laugh!   Most of them just stared at me as though I was crazy but a few had a giggle – probably at me rather than with me but at least they were smiling!  

Update on phone


Zilch, zip, zero!  STILL waiting for someone to do something! 

 

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